my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.
she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?
when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.
she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.
she talks about doing it w guys and masturbating to photos of them :(
she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.
and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”
“Don’t worry about it 😅”
“I can’t say”
Etc.
Sounds like your girlfriend has already broken up with you and she’s just waiting for you to get with the program because she’s too conflict avoidant to say it to your face.