As a shut in with social anxiety and very introverted I’m wondering how to find friends now that I got better. Basically starting from zero since I know nobody in my city so I’m wondering if someone has some experience with finding friends as lonely anxious introvert and just how other people find friends.

    • Maxxie@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 minutes ago

      Same. I’ve been having a blast for the last year with three other ppl from work: we go for coffees, play board games every two weeks, chat in messages.

      Haven’t been so happy with my social life since, like, ever.

    • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      36 minutes ago

      That is a horrible idea. You should always keep your work and personal life separate.

      • dgbbad@lemmy.zip
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        4 minutes ago

        This is dumb as hell. Why wouldn’t you want to be make friends with the people you are going to be spending nearly a third of your time with?