Gormadt to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world • 7 months agoWhat are some green flags in a partner in your opinion?message-square53fedilinkarrow-up1128arrow-down111file-text
arrow-up1117arrow-down1message-squareWhat are some green flags in a partner in your opinion?Gormadt to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world • 7 months agomessage-square53fedilinkfile-text
I’ll start: if they have hobbies it’s a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.
minus-square@wowwoweowza@lemmy.mllinkfedilink48•7 months agoGreen flags: Their smile. Their obvious kindness. Their big heart. They make you laugh. They drive. They ask you to drive. They have friends that you like. Your friends like them. They read novels. The play a musical instrument. They speak another language. They can ride a bike faster than you can and you think you’re kind of hot shot about that. They openly tell you that some of your habits are unsavory. You know they are. How courageous of them to mention it. They like you anyway. They can make chocolate chip cookies from memory and do like for no reason. You like their family. They don’t like your family but then again neither do you. 34 years later the two of you not only love one another but find things to like about one another every single day.
Green flags:
Their smile.
Their obvious kindness.
Their big heart.
They make you laugh.
They drive.
They ask you to drive.
They have friends that you like.
Your friends like them.
They read novels.
The play a musical instrument.
They speak another language.
They can ride a bike faster than you can and you think you’re kind of hot shot about that.
They openly tell you that some of your habits are unsavory. You know they are. How courageous of them to mention it.
They like you anyway.
They can make chocolate chip cookies from memory and do like for no reason.
You like their family.
They don’t like your family but then again neither do you.
34 years later the two of you not only love one another but find things to like about one another every single day.