My husband of 17 years is a judge. Recently multiple people have come out publicly with their stories about my husband because all the complaints they have filed with the Council which deals with this have been ignored throughout the years - no investigation opened. My husband has always kept me in the dark about his work - finances, so let’s just say I have my reasons to believe the allegations. The most horrific one I’ve heard is my husband ruled that a 12-year-old consented to having sex with an adult (legal age of consent at the time was 15 in our country), so there was no conviction. The accused in this trial was wealthy. I didn’t know about this until now. Frankly I’m completely disgusted with him.
Being accused of something does not mean being guilty of that something.
Nor does believing someone may be guilty of that something can be used as a proof they’re guilty of that something.
If rumours are enough to make you feel disgusted by your husband maybe you should consider leaving him because, imho, there must be deeper and much longer lasting reasons for you to feel that way toward him.
Please, do note that I have absolutely no idea if you’re being right or wrong in feeling the way you feel as I don’t know you, nor him. I’m just telling you what I would certainly do if I was living with someone I feel disgusted by. That said, it’s important to keep in mind that feeling disgusted by someone does not means that person is guilty of anything either. Not being liked is not a crime… Not yet?