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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • there’s no one standard, it depends on what the facility owners have space for and what they think works best

    it can be just one or a series of regular bathrooms like you’d have at home, it can be multiple normal bathrooms behind a common door, a room with stalls in them, etc

    urinals are only really needed in really public places i find, stuff like restaurants only need one or two regular bathrooms.









  • The societal views on relationships are just so fucked in general, stuff like “dominant=top” “man=dominant” and “you can’t have different preferences day-to-day”, and of course “relationships can only be 2 people”.

    It’s taken me several years of constant poking and prodding at my brain to figure out my preferences and it’s complex enough that i’d double the length of this comment by explaining it.
    But god damn it’s nice to have it figured out; especially coming to terms with not actually being straight (and rejecting the concept of sexuality categories) has done wonders for my confidence, it’s a solid foundation for my mental health.

    It makes me very sad and angry that it’s questionable if a significant amount of the population will ever reach this point, i wish we could launch a global project to help people with introspection and untangling themselves so they can have this inner peace.