4 panel comic of two people holding drinks, talking
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Blue: You wear too much makeup.
Pink: You consume too much oxygen
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Blue: It’s just my opinion, you’d look better withou-
Pink: So would you. Without oxygen
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Pink applies lipstick
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Pink: Fuck your opinions.

  • be_excellent_to_each_other@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    I have to admit there’s a dimension to this I don’t get. I absolutely agree that whatever makeup you choose to apply is your business and no one else’s. But every single woman in my life, from my mother, to girlfriends, cousins, platonic friends, and my wife has expressed their opinion to me (often disapprovingly) at one time or another about my decisions with regard to my clothing, facial hair, regular hair, etc. I feel very sure this is an experience many other men have also had. It annoys me, but I don’t see it as an issue in my life.

    What makes this any different?

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      1 year ago

      Absolutely, I’ve been seeing so much casual sexism on here. Maybe it has something to do with the aging techie demographic sites like this naturally attract, I see it in the programmer communities a lot

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    1 year ago

    That’s the thing the “It’s just my opinion man” crowd hasn’t gotten yet (with a few exceptions): If you are allowed to speak out whatever “opinion” crosses the two braincells in your skull when they aren’t occupied with keeping you from falling over, so is everyone else.

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    1 year ago

    And than if you don’t wear make up you are told you would look better if you tried a little make make up. Damed if you do, damed if you don’t.

  • Smorty [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 months ago

    Ok, but what if the guy respects the women and her decisions. What if he has seen her without makeup, and thinks that she is beautiful either way. How would one tell a woman that, without it being oppressive? I genuinely want to know, as I don’t see that as being evil. Please tell me if I’m wrong on that.